Step 2: Repeat step 1, but now with your right hand over your right ear.
Step 3: Watch your significant others actions.
The best way to know what someone is all about is not by listening to them, it's by observing them. Your words mean nothing when they don't match your life.
Ladies, do yourself a favor & ditch the dweeb that thinks his smooth talk is a bandage to his selfish & childish behavior.
You can find out everything you need to know about someone just by watching how they live. If you find yourself in a relationship and start noticing major discrepancies with what your significant other says & does ... dump them.
-And dump them now-
"Drive out a scoffer, and strife will go out, and quarreling and abuse will cease."